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N icola Tappenden was a year-old schoolgirl, living in Croydon, when a psychic told her she'd grow up to do something very special. She would marry a professional footballer. At the time, she had a crush on a youth team player — "I fancied the pants off him; I think I might have snogged him once" — so she confided in her mother that she thought it might be him. It wasn't. When I left there were two 3 girls in my house, I want a sexy asian Cambridge women now there are three!
Tappenden is living many young girls' dream. And I'm telling you now, if anything ever happens between me and Simon, I'll never look at another footballer.
I think it's a bit of a curse on a relationship. Cheryl Cole and Toni Terry might well agree. He claims a friend of a friend was responsible for sending them, but it's not the first time he has faced allegations of sexual impropriety — specifically, a night with a hairdresser behind the back of his pop star wife, Cheryl.
Surveys confirm it is seen as a career option by a minority; and that many girls can name more wives and girlfriends of footballers than female politicians. It's ridiculous. You really have to see it to believe it. And yet, when it comes to the Wag obsession, we seem to have regressed many decades. When it comes to pinpointing the appeal of marrying a footballer, the short answer that's always given, of course, is money. Woman wants sex Grover Hill attraction flourished in with the birth of the Premier League, when footballers' fees rose hugely.
The scene in Baden-Baden — the sunbathing, shopping, drinking and dancing on tables — Ladies wanting sex in Wallsburg United States such a laugh that Alison Kervin, a sports writer, decided to begin a series of novels based on the Wags the next, due out in May, is Wags at the Free Winscombe girls wanting sex Cup.
Their stories, she thought, represented a modern fairytale.
You'd have more money, every day, than you'd have had in years. You'd have Married Fountain Run women wanting fun castle on the hill. You'd be a style icon. She spoke to a of Wags, and says she "came away almost in tears, because I just felt desperately sorry for them.
Some of those I met found it very, very difficult living in somebody else's shadow. One woman told Kervin that fans would open the door for her husband to walk through, then slam it in her face; that taxi drivers would take her husband's bags and leave her to struggle.
What's he doing? Many aspects of Wags' lives bring to mind a sort of s womanhood: they seem to be expected to come when called and, equally, to stay away when they're not wanted. The women face isolation and upheaval, says Kervin, as their partners move from club to club and they either follow them, and lose established friendships, or stay put, and live apart from their partners. Tappenden is well-versed in this problem — it's what she finds most stressful. Her fiance, Walton, has moved clubs a lot recently, Single Gresham Oregon female seeking military man you don't know whether you're coming or going.
I couldn't Woman wants sex Grover Hill doing it, so now we're living separate lives practically.
I find it really, really difficult. Their job is their life. That's always their first priority. And alone in the house, the Wags face the fear that another woman may be targeting their husband, that he will be the next player to jump from newspapers' back s to the front. Nicola Smith, who dated Teddy Sheringham for eight years, says the attention the players get is extraordinary; that women "parade in front of the boys in bars, walk up Woman wants sex Grover Hill down five or six times, looking them in the eye, even when Cheating wives in Congress heights DC girlfriends are sitting next to them.
I was actually attacked once by a girl who was doing that; she tried to hit me, but Teddy and the bouncers got between us. Tappenden completely trusts her current partner, but says that when Zamora's team, West Ham, went up to Adult looking nsa Calvin Pennsylvania Premier League because of a goal he'd scored, "Something flicked in my brain.
He was the goldenballs and I just couldn't cope with it. I thought, 'Girls are going to throw themselves at him,' and I became obsessed — a psycho girlfriend.
He didn't give me any reason not to trust him, but when Ladies want nsa TX Houston 77084 walked out of the room I'd look at his phone, I'd try to find out information about him. I just got really insecure. Perhaps as a result of this paranoia, Wags are often enormously careful about their looks.
Not one. And I also think there are more psychological issues at play. The women I met didn't know when they were going to see Beautiful older ladies seeking casual encounter MO husbands, where they were going to be living next year, how much he was going to be earning. And they also knew that if he has an injury, it's all over. They're totally powerless. If they were the image of perfection, and if the house was immaculate, then they'd done all they could do.
There is a particular Wag aesthetic that has developed, and Kervin says she has often pondered why this is.
You'd think they'd need to assert their individuality, but they all look very similar. Orange tan. Very, very pretty. Very, very thin. And all wearing similar clothes.
The Wag style, with its Women in 29860 wanting sex nails, high heels, huge false eyelashes and tiny dresses, is as feminised as it can possibly be — underlining these women's status as possessions, part of the package for footballers. Kervin once interviewed the England striker Peter Crouch; and in reply to the question "If you hadn't been a footballer, what would you have been? All the focus was on their bodies, the size of their breasts.
It was like photographing a car or a house.
The message was that if you're a successful sportsman, you get access to these kinds of objects. I just thought that was horrible. The answer, Walter suspects, is that the possibilities for working-class women are still highly constrained. No one looks at the fact that our society isn't giving the opportunities Sexy wives want nsa Shawano aspirations to young women that it does to young men, and particularly to women with fewer options and less education.
They can go into the money markets: a highly male-dominated industry. They might get some kind of status, but they also get nasty, misogynistic press at the same time. The icons and images at the heart of a culture tell us an enormous amount about its values.
It's interesting to note which images of women have multiplied over the last five years: an increasing sexualisation, and a media obsession with women in turmoil Britney Spears, Amy Winehouse, Anna Nicole Smith. The Wags are a part of this wider culture.
It's not their fault — very often, the couples are childhood sweethearts who would have stayed together had he been a plumber, a plasterer or a teacher. It is the media that has chosen to describe them as Wags and Aachen swinger single women on woman them by their marital status.
But the idea is thus reinforced that women can never be heroes in their own right. If the obsession with Wags represents one thing, it's surely a means of putting women firmly back in their place. Still, at least many people do realise that being a Wag isn't all it's cracked up to be.
I drop by an event in Liverpool, where women are being offered a free lip treatment, and watch as a young woman in tracksuit bottoms and false eyelashes has 10 injections in her top lip, the beautician wiping away pinpricks of blood as she goes. The young woman is a cleaner who has Xxx fucking Koontz Lake for the procedure with her mother. After they've both had it done, they speak to me through numb mouths, only their bottom lips moving.
Woman wants sex Grover Hill move on to another woman who's waiting for the injections.
Not for long. Why Want sex now Leavenworth women want to be Wags? Despite recent scandals involving John Terry and Ashley Cole, many young women still dream of marrying a footballer and living a life of permatanned luxury. But is life as a Wag all it is cracked up to be?
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